Saturday, March 24, 2007

Singing for our Lives

Oh, the power of music…. Today I was watching “Six Feet Under” which I used to watch religiously when I lived in NYC, but had not seen the last season’s episodes. Well, at the end of the show, they played a song, “We are Singing for our Lives” and me, being the cheeseball, emotional goof that I am, started crying. The line that touched me went “we are peaceful, angry people and we are singing, singing for our lives”. I immediately thought about the fight to defeat SB959 and how we, as GLBTQ people, are so mad about this hateful bill and being basically equated with pedophiles. Yet, even in our frustration, hurt and anger, we are basically a peace-loving group that is trying to reach out and appeal to a sense of fairness and justice. So, I did an internet search to find out more about the song and was amazed to discover “Singing For Our Lives was written after Harvey Milk and Mayor Moscone were murdered in San Francisco. Over the years, verses have been added reflecting many issues and concerns, The song can also be found in the Unitarian Universalist Hymnal, Singing The Living Tradition.” The lyrics of the entire song are…

”We are a gentle angry peopleSinging, singing for our livesWe are a land of many colors...We are an anti-nuclear people...We are gay and straight together...We are a peaceful, loving people...”

I stopped and thought about the ironic parallel between the timing of when the song was written and now that I am finally hearing it. Harvey Milk was the first openly-gay elected official in a large US city and represented such a beacon of hope for our community. His murder was such a tragedy. Almost thirty years later, trailblazers like Kathy Webb are still pioneering our path into the political community and gaining our place at the political table. Yet, there are those that still want to push us back into a status of second-class citizenship and want to deny us the basic fundamental freedoms guaranteed in our Constitution, “Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.” We are still singing, singing for our lives.

To download “Singing for our Lives” (free) http://www.hollynear.com/free.download.html

Monday, March 19, 2007

Announcing....Drag Idol '07

For more info..... http://www.littlerockcapitalpride.org/fundraising-events/drag-idol/

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

SB959 YouTube footage

My friend, Eric Camp, videotaped portions of the Senate Public Health, Labor and Welfare committee debate on SB959 and the subsequent debate and vote on the Senate floor. For those unable to make it to the capitol, I think this provides great insight into what we are up against.

Reprinted from Arkansas Equality Yahoo! group (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ArkEquality/)

"I attended and videotaped the Senate committee meeting & vote Monday, and the full Senate debate & vote Tuesday. I YouTubed the footage,and you can watch it all (in several 10 minute clips) from my myspace blog: http://blog.myspace.com/rimshot72205 or you can got to YouTube.com and use keywords "Arkansas, adopt, foster, children discrimination, law, gay, lesbian" and embed the videos anywhere you ink, if you find them useful.'

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Mad as Hell and ready to fight

The Senate approved SB959 today and now we take the fight to the House. I am sick to my stomach that Senator Womack and Arkansas Family Council can convince our state senate that we are a bunch of pedophiles that children need to be protected from. If you have not contacted your Representative, PLEASE DO SO! Believe me, if this bill passes it will not be the last right they try to take away. What next.... a ban on GLBT teachers? Let's come together as ONE UNITED COMMUNITY and show that discrimination is WRONG, that unsubstantiated stereotypes will not dictate public policy, and that we will NOT be marginalized, second-class citizens. JUSTICE FOR ALL!

Sunday, March 11, 2007

Arkansas Equality

Tomorrow I will be attending the Senate Public Health, Welfare and Labor committe meeting were SB959 is on the agenda. My sincere hope is that this hateful bill will die an unceremonious death in committee. That being said, it is imperative that the GLBTQ community organize an effective means to combat legislation like this in the future. For those of you who do not know, a Yahoo Group (and a myspace page) has been created to form Arkansas Equality.

From the Ark Equlity Yahoo group (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ArkEquality/ )...

"We should stive to be truly STATEWIDE, NON-PARTISAN, ANTI-RACIST, ANTI-CLASIST, SMART, STRATEGIC, and FOCUSED ON LGBT RIGHTS. This yahoo group was started in hopes that queer and allied Arkansans will join together to form a lasting organization to push for equality of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Arkansans. Arkansas deserves to have a strong group that is committed ACHIEVING measurable progress towards fairness. To bring Arkansas organizing and activism in line with other states (many successful at passing pro-LGBT laws!), we should strive to have a non-profit organization with (someday) 3 arms to do the work of equality: the c3(non-profit, tax deductible, does education and outreach work), the c4(non-profit, not tax deductible, does political work like direct lobbying and getting citizens to ask their representative to vote fairly), and PAC(would have the goal of electing fair-minded candidates to office). We should stive to be truly STATEWIDE, NON-PARTISAN, ANTI-RACIST, ANTI-CLASIST, SMART, STRATEGIC, and FOCUSED ON LGBT RIGHTS. "


Let's give this group our support as we demand our place at the table and tell the Womacks of this state that we will no longer be their whipping boys/girls or let them designate us as second-class citizens of this state. I, for one, will NOT sit quietly on the sidelines and have my rights denied because some hate-monger wants to energize his conservative base.

Thursday, March 08, 2007

Good buys at Twisted

I dropped in on Dennis at A Twisted Gift Shop yesterday to chat about Capital Pride and to take a look around his shop. They have a VERY wide selection of books, magazines, Pride accessories, VHS and DVD movies, adult novelties and clothing items. If you need "gay gear" of just about any variety--- I am sure they have it!! I came across this beanie baby bear (above) that looked SO much like our LRCP logo that I just HAD to buy it (along with a metal AIDS ribbon and another item not appropriate for posting :) Dennis has been in business for over 20 years here in Little Rock and has been a past supporter of many GLBT groups. I encourage our community to "support its own" and patronize this business. I found their prices very reasonable and the selection extensive (they have combined two stores into one so it is literally busting at the seams with merchandise). So please help support a locally owned GLBT business and drop by! The shop is located at 1007 West 7th St. (corner of 7th & Chester).

Tuesday, March 06, 2007

Help defeat SB 959!!

BI requested that Rita Sklar, Director of ACLU-Arkansas, who spear-headed the 6-year fight (with a victory last year in the Arkansas Supreme Court) to overturn the ban on gay foster parents, to provide a clear and concise message that can be conveyed to our Senators (and Representatives if it goes to the House). Here is what she provided me. Feel free to use or modify at your own discretion.

Tell the Arkansas Legislature: Vote No on SB 959


SB 959, a measure that seeks to ban gay people and most unmarried heterosexual couples who live together from adopting or serving as foster parents, was introduced in the Arkansas Senate on Monday. This measure would categorically ban lesbian and gay Arkansans from adopting or serving as foster parents, even if they’re relatives of the children in question. It would also ban unmarried heterosexual couples who live together unless they’re related to the child, which could prevent godparents or family friends from caring for a child if the parents die or can’t keep the child.

Ask your legislator to vote NO on SB 959. If you are a foster child, adopted child, an adoptive or foster parent, or family that would be affected by this law, please share your story.

The bill is scheduled to be heard before the Senate Public Health, Welfare, and Labor Committee. The committee may hear the bill tomorrow - Wed. March 7 at 10:00. If they do not hear the bill tomorrow, they will likely hear it next week. Interested persons should contact:

* the committee members
* their own state senators, and
* the Governor's office

The main message to get across is to "Vote NO on SB959."

All Arkansas Senators may be left a telephone message at: 501-682-2902.

The telephone number for Governor Mike Beebe is: 501-682-2345

Members of the Senate Public Health Committe include:
Chair Jack Critcher: <http://b8.mail.yahoo.com/ym/acluarkansas.org/Compose?To=jcritcher@arkleg.state.ar.us> jcritcher@arkleg.state.ar.us Vice Chair Tracy Steele: <http://b8.mail.yahoo.com/ym/acluarkansas.org/Compose?To=tsteele@arkleg.state.ar.us> tsteele@arkleg.state.ar.us Senator Percy Malone: <http://b8.mail.yahoo.com/ym/acluarkansas.org/Compose?To=pmalone@arkleg.state.ar.us> pmalone@arkleg.state.ar.us Senator Hank Wilkins IV: <http://b8.mail.yahoo.com/ym/acluarkansas.org/Compose?To=hwilkins@arkleg.state.ar.us> hwilkins@arkleg.state.ar.us Senator Barbara Horn: <http://b8.mail.yahoo.com/ym/acluarkansas.org/Compose?To=bhorn@arkleg.state.ar.us> bhorn@arkleg.state.ar.us Senator Randy Laverty: no email listed Senator Bill Pritchard: <http://b8.mail.yahoo.com/ym/acluarkansas.org/Compose?To=pritchardb@arkleg.state.ar.us> pritchardb@arkleg.state.ar.us Senator Jack Crumbly: no email listed


Talking Points


* The state of Arkansas doesn’t have enough foster and adoptive homes available for children awaiting placement. Limiting the pool of potential parents through a blanket restriction like SB 959 would create would only mean that even more children go without good homes.


* Child welfare experts agree that all potential foster or adoptive parents should be subjected to the same individual screening process to determine their ability to provide a safe, stable, nurturing homes for children.
* All of the major Arkansas and national groups dedicated to children’s health and welfare oppose blanket restrictions on parenting by lesbians and gay men.


Dear [ Decision Maker ],

As your constituent, I urge you to vote no on SB 959, which is currently in the Arkansas Senate.

Although this legislation purports to “protect” the children of Arkansas, instead it would hurt the many children in need of adoptive and foster homes in Arkansas. It would tie the hands of caseworkers and prevent them from making the placements they deem best for some children.

25 years of research on lesbian and gay parents and their children shows that gay people are just as capable of being good parents as heterosexuals and the children raised by gay parents are just as well-adjusted. Not a single study has found any harm to children from being raised by gay parents.

All of the major Arkansas groups dedicated to children's health and welfare -- Arkansas Advocates for Children and Families, the Arkansas Psychological Association and the Arkansas chapter of the National Association of Social Workers -- recognize that gay people can be equally good parents and, thus, oppose restrictions on parenting by lesbians and gay men. All of the national children's health and welfare groups agree too, including the American Academy of Pediatricians, the American Psychological Association, the National Association of Social Workers, and the Child Welfare League of America.

The Arkansas Supreme Court has already struck down a ban on fostering by gay people, saying that it served no child welfare purpose. Arkansas already individually screens every prospective foster parent through a criminal records check, health screening, and a home study. Anyone, gay or straight, that the state finds unfit to parent is already excluded. This bill is nothing but an attempt to get around the court’s ruling at the expense of children who need homes.

Sincerely,
[Your name]
[Your address]

For more information, please feel free to contact us, as well as visit our website at www.acluarkansas.org: <http://www.acluarkansas.org/> for updated information.

Thursday, March 01, 2007

In the Life



I recently was sent a couple of videos of the show "In the Life" by Chris Christoffel (from Northwest Arkansas) and was blown away by the inspiring stories. Unfortunately, our local PBS station does NOT carry this important program and I would like to ask the community to help encourage them to do so. I know that my personal struggle with coming out and accepting "who I am" would have been much easier if (as a gay Arkansas teen) I could have had access to a show like this.

About "In the Life" (from http://inthelifetv.org)

In the Life is a national television series in a newsmagazine format that reports on LGBT issues and culture. Segments from some of our past episodes have been devoted to topics such as Youth and Education, Health and AIDS, Arts and Culture, Workplace, Relationships and Family, and Global Issues.
In the Life is broadcast on 246 analog and digital public television stations nationwide, including all of the top 20 viewer markets, reaching 70 million US households.
In the Life is produced by In The Life Media, Inc., a not-for-profit 501(c)(3) member-supported educational project dedicated to presenting accurate information about the LGBT community.
ITL Mission
In The Life Media, a national organization, provides information about the LGBT community and produces diverse images of the LGBT community to create better understanding and acceptance.
In the Life's cultural programming continues to educate not only LGBT people about their culture, but people from all communities with a uniquely LGBT perspective.

How you can help....

Go to http://inthelifetv.org/common/page.php?ref=commm enter your zip code, type in your personal information and an auto-generated email will be sent to AETN encouraging them to air "In the Life". Or, contact Catherine Mays, AETN Program Assistant 501-730-9345 cmays@aetn.org directly.

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